Thank God We Didn’t Divorce – Sonia, IK Ogbonna’s Wife Speaks






Sonia,  wife of Nollywood actor IK Ogbonna has revealed what she and her husband did to avoid divorce. In an Instagram post, she said they grew to understand the process of being together which requires shunning ego and stubbornness.

Read her words below.

Happy relationship is not found,it’s built. Its ok to be confused,scared and lost. We can’t know something we never experienced before. When we did wrong it was simply because we didn’t know better. Now we do. It’s a process. Then you learn how to remove pride (Igbo man VS feministic,”i know it all” kinda independent stubborn alpha woman = you can only imagine) and listen to UNDERSTAND because you care,and NOT to REPLY satisfy your ego because you want to prove him/her “wrong” . It took us some time,but that’s also just fine. Thank God we didn’t divorce every time we thought of it when times were harsh  Otherwise I would not be able to discover that u can fall in love with same person more then once. The most genuine & exceptional male creature I have ever come across. Bless you . Thank you for all the happiness 



In a recent interview that went viral, her hubby, Ik Ogbonna talked about his own definition of cheating which got many people angry.

He said;

 “Cheating is not even having sex with a woman that is not your
wife, that is one mistake most people make, Cheating is when you start
developing feelings for the person, now let me explain myself if a man
has sex with a woman for 30mins and he is done and dusted and moves on
with his life that ceases to exists the moment it is finished, this
means only broke your marital vows, Thats not cheating, Now Cheating is
when you start sharing the 100percent of you with someone else, Now am
not just talking about sex, am talking about giving that person Chatting
time, I miss you baby, I miss you honey, when can we see again,
Planning trips etc”

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